This is just something I noticed during a discussion about gaming, but the more I look at it, the more I see it applies to a whole host of things. It started with something very simple, as is common among many gaming forums it was in an argument about Call of Duty. This one specifically was about the characters in Call of Duty, during which many people said the characters weren't diverse enough. Admittedly there aren't many women in the game, and the majority are white, this is visibly obvious, but another point was that none of them were gay.
This confused me, although it's fair to assume that at least some of the characters had families or lovers, their personal lives never really came up in the story. No one's sexuality was mentioned at all, and from that they assume that all characters were straight. As if the only way for a character to be gay is to stand around talking about it a la Dragon Age. Now, I'll admit that I don't know that many gay people, but with the ones I do know it barely ever comes up. Infact, with the exception of one TMI conversation, I think the only time my bestie mentioned it was when he told me he was gay. Yet in games, films, books, etc. people assume that the only way to be gay is to stand and talk about it.
Am I the only one who notices this, or do others see it too? Is it a fair assumption that people who don't talk about their sexuality are straight, or is this the sort of mentality that's setting us back?